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See How Easily You Can Develop Excellent Communication Skills

April 5, 2008 · 12 Comments

It’s not what you tell them, it is what they hear.”

- Red Auerbach, former coach, Boston Celtics

One of my favorite communicators is Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

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I was reading through a workbook titled “Wired for Influence: Skills to Lead Others” by Tim Elmore.

He highlights Dr. King as one of the great communicators of the 20th century.

Content vs. Charisma

I have heard many speakers with great charisma but no content. You know the type, all fluff

On the other hand, many of us could recall the dreadful experience of a speaker who fell on the opposite end of the spectrum; great content, but no energy, or hook to capture his audience.

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People Oriented Vs. Lesson Oriented

Elmore draws out a comparison between Public speakers and Communicators; public speakers teach lessons while communicators teach people.

The comparison between the two:

Public Speaker

  1. Puts the message before the people
  2. Asks the question: What do I have?
  3. Focuses on atmosphere
  4. Content oriented
  5. Goal: Complete the message

Communicator

  1. Puts the people before the message
  2. Asks the question: What do they need?
  3. Focuses on techniques
  4. Change oriented
  5. Goal: Complete the people

If I learned anything from Oral Communication, a glorified speaking course, a balance of content and charisma will not only greatly improve your grade, but your ability to engage any audience without putting them to sleep.

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